Is your marriage unsafe? 5 things men do to destroy their marriage

If you complain about your wife’s attitude, you need to ask yourself if you’ve done something to trigger that attitude. Marriage requires mutual understanding, support, care and lots of love. When the marriage is not in good terms, men try to destroy it more. However, it’s not always the husband. Many women also try to destroy their marriage. These things only make it worse and hard for the couple.

Here are 5 things that men do to destroy their marriage:

Not Taking Care of the Family

Irrespective of your wife working or not, it is your responsibility to provide for the family needs. A lot of men neglect their family to destroy their marriage. Not spending time with the family, neglecting their needs and prioritizing everything but the family are some ways in which men try to destroy their marriage.

Not Taking Care of Family

Not Showing Love & Affection

A lot of men do not show love and affection to their wife. When was the last time you told her you love her? No matter how long it’s been since your marriage, your wife wants to be loved and cared for. It is really important to keep the love going for a healthy marriage.

Trying to Fix Her

Men, who want to destroy their marriage, try to fix their wife and judge every detail about her. Remember, you need to accept all flaws of the person you love. You cannot fix anyone or judge. Everyone has a dark side. Marriage is about compromise and trying to find common grounds. You can’t force change. Instead inspire each other and grow.

Playing the Blame Game

If men want to destroy their marriage, they always shift the blame onto their wife. All marriages have conflicts. Learn to apologize and move on. Many husbands see apology as a sign of weakness. Instead of arguing and make it worse, accept your fault and concentrate on more significant things.

Playing the Blame Game

Not Sharing

Not including your wife in your struggles and successes is one way in which you destroy your marriage. While you may think it’s sparing your women, it is actually underestimating her. You must share your struggles. It makes the other person feel loved and included in your life.