Are you turning into a Bridezilla? Here’s how you can relax

A big fat wedding can be a lot to plan and it can cause a great deal of stress to the bride who usually wants everything perfect and in place and it’s not unusual for her to turn into a bridezilla. But this may hurt your relationships with people; Read on

By Janvi Manchanda

Updated on Jul 26, 2019 | 02:18 PM IST | 3.4M

Having a full-fledged wedding can be a huge task. It’s not as easy as it may seem. Organizing a whole wedding can be really tough but it has to be done. It’s the bride and groom’s special day and they are the center of attention and it’s a very important time for them. But it’s also extremely stressful. After a lot of careful planning and hard work, the event has been organized as per their choice. Along with this big event comes a lot of stress. It’s not nice when everything you dreamed off goes for a toss. Even the tiniest thing can piss you off or upset you to the point that you turn into a Bridezilla. Turning into the meanest bride isn’t going to make things easier. It’s important to calm down and handle situations with poise. Here are some tips to not turn into a bridezilla.

1. Remember that it’s your day. It’s a special day for you and your partner and it’s not worth wasting your time or spoiling your mood over anything at all. You need to stay calm and happy and resolve this issue.

2. Don’t have unrealistic expectations. Don’t try to organize a big fat filmy wedding. It’s not real or possible.

3. Accept the fact that nothing is perfect. Life is full of imperfections and it’s alright. Flaws are what makes everything more real.

4. Delegate work. Don’t be so hard on yourself. Don’t try to do everything on your own, delegate the tasks. Let others help you out while they can so that you don’t have to stress too much.

5. Adapt to the changes and let things go. Don’t try to do things your way only. Don’t be too rigid. Go with the flow and let things roll as they are. It may not be the way you want it but it is real.

6. Find space. Take a break from things and get some space for your own self. Calm yourself down before you do something stupid or mean. Just relax.

7. Remember that you are marrying for love. It’s about you and your partner and not about people and functions. It’s alright if it doesn’t turn out the way you expected it to.