A complete guide for introverts to deal with social settings

Introverts are people who are shy, timid and reserved. They take time to open up to people and make friends. However, contrary to popular opinion, introverts do like socialising and going out just like extroverts. The only difference is that while extroverts can always be surrounded by a group of people and be the centre of everyone’s attention, introverts need some time alone to recharge and gain energy.

While they do like going out, introverts often have a hard time putting themselves out there and interacting with new people. So to help you introverts out, we have for you the complete guide to own social settings and not feel uncomfortable. 

Mentally prepare yourself

Before going to any big event, prepare yourself mentally. While on your way to the event, listen to some calming music or psych yourself to not make a big deal out of it to help calm those nerves down.

Fake it

You can try behaving like an extrovert to feel like one. Be extra enthusiastic, funny, talkative and energetic than you usually would, to act like an extrovert, till you become one.

Prepare conversation starters

It can be quite intimidating for introverts to strike a conversation with strangers at a get-together. So prepare some easy and fun conversation starters to easily break the ice with new people and improve your social skills.

Take your friend along

If you really feel the pressure of going to a room full of unknown people, then invite your friend to that event and take them along to help you find your bearings in a sea of new people.

Don’t push yourself too much

If you feel that it has been too tiring a day for you and you feel drained, don’t hesitate to spend some time alone to recharge yourself. Go easy on yourself and take a break when needed. 

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