Fighting with your partner? THIS is how you can get over your fights

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Love and fights go hand in hand. You can’t be in a picture-perfect relationship where people just don’t fight. It’s completely normal to fight and make up often in a relationship. This helps you grow together and improve your relationship for the better. It helps you improve the understanding that you and your partner have. Some people have silent fights and some scream and yell but we forget how important the time post your fight is. What matters, in the end, is how you handle your fights. After the mess you make in the heat of the moment, cleaning up your act is important. You don’t want your fight to weaken your relationship. If your fights don’t get sorted properly it can cause a tense environment and create a crack in the relationship which is difficult to mend if not done well in time. But you also need to be careful while you fix things in order to prevent any further damage. It essential to do it the right way and avoid any more damage. 

Here are some tips to sort your fights in a positive manner

1. Give each other some space. Get some alone time and give your partner some time to think and calm down. Lashing out on each other will not help you or your relationship.

2. Communication is the key. Talk it out. Don’t accuse each other and don’t be defensive. Talk and resolve your conflict. Don’t play the blame game and don’t say anything to hurt each other on purpose.

3. Learn how to forgive each other. It’s important to apologize and forgive and forget. Don’t hold a grudge. It takes some time to mend a relationship. Healing is a time taking process. Let things happen and don’t try to rush it.

4. Even after your fight is over you may feel the need to prove your point and take a jab at your partner. Taunting can make things worse. Don’t drag out your fights just because you’re high on emotions.

5. Don’t punish your partner. Don’t shut them out. Remember that your fights are not more important than your relationship. It’s not you v/s him, it’s both of you v/s the problem. Let your partner in and don’t let your anger hurt your partner or your relationship.