Entering into a relationship? Here are 5 things you need to keep in mind before your first relationship

Your excitement level may be at peak when you’re about to enter your first relationship and you may feel on top of the world. However, you need to look at it from all aspects. We think everything will happen the way we want it to. But there are certain things which you can’t predict. If this is your first relationship, you can’t know what it’s like to be in one. The idea you get from movies, friends and others around you is just a representation and not an experience. So, here are certain things you need to keep in mind so you don’t regret your relationship.

Sacrifices

Sacrificing for your partner is not really something that comes to your mind before dating. It is weird but it is what it is. When you’re dating, you will have to make certain sacrifices for your partner to keep your relationship going. Think about how much time you have for the relationship, will you be able to fit in everything and how much things are you willing to give up. Sacrifices can be small as well as serious. 

Self-love

Remember to always love yourself. Your happiness shouldn’t depend on another person. Your self-worth isn’t measured by your relationship. Learn to make yourself happy and share those positive things with your partner. Don’t enter into a relationship to make yourself feel desirable or beautiful. You’re beautiful in your own way. Your relationship is a part of your life and not your whole life. 

Self-love

Communication

Communication is the key to any healthy relationship. Share your thoughts, feelings and opinions. Assuming things is the worst option. If you have needs and expectations, talk about them. If you want to talk to him/her, send a text or call. Do not follow strange texting rules. Communicate freely and openly with your partner. It’s the only way to avoid fights and arguments. It also helps you to know your partner better. 

Communication

Trust

Trust is something which is very difficult to give and easy to lose. In a relationship, there is a need for mutual trust. You must trust your partner and receive the same amount of trust. Trust is the foundation of every healthy relationship. There’s no point in a relationship without trust. Feelings of security must come from within. Controlling what your partner can do, who they talk to etc, are signs of an unhealthy relationship. 

Trust

Expectations

Make sure you know what you and your potential significant want from the relationship. Ask yourself why you want a relationship. Get involved for the right reasons with the right person. Be with someone who makes you a better version of yourself, someone who adds value to your life and makes your time worth it. Don’t set unrealistic expectations. Once you know why this relationship is the best for you, you may take decisions thereafter. 

Relationships don’t bloom on their own. It takes effort, understanding and cooperation. You need to give it time. Get involved for the right reasons and know it’s the right person then work towards it.