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Do your boyfriend and best friend hate each other? Here’s how you can handle it
When two of the most important people in your life hate each other your life turns upside down. Read on to find out how you can handle this tricky situation.
A best friend means a lot to you. You’ve stood by each other and your love means the world to you and your bestie. Your bond is the strongest and your best friend is the person you turn to in your time of need. Your significant other is equally important. These two people are a big part of your life and you love them much more than anyone can imagine. But what happens when these two people dislike each other. They have a distaste for each other that is causing a rift in your bonding with both of them. How do you balance things out and stop it from damaging your friendship and your love? This is exactly the kind of chaos you want to avoid. You don’t want to be made to chose between the two. Now is when you need some help with managing the two most important people in your life. Here’s how you can handle the hate your best friend and partner spew out for each other.
1. Don’t try to push it. Don’t force them into being friends. Let them be. Pushing them will only make things worse. When you try to push them into being friends it will strain your relationship with each of them. This will create a gap between your bond with each. So, don’t stress them into making it work.
2. Try to find the reason behind this distaste. Talk to them and try to find out the reason for their dislike towards each other. Talk to each of them separately and understand their reasons and concerns.
3. Try to resolve their issues. Once resolved there won’t be any reason for conflict. If you are unable to resolve the conflict try requesting them to simply act cordial around each other and not bicker and fight.
4. Don’t allow them to criticize each other. They have a dislike for each other but make them understand that you share a bond of love and trust with each and you would not want to hear anything against either one of them.
5. Don’t choose or replace either one them. They may dislike each other but they are a part of your life. Replacing them will do you no good.
6. Take things slow. Don’t expect them to like each other immediately. Good things take time and something like this will take time.
