Hello Therapist: I broke up with my boyfriend & after patch up, feel like breaking up again: What should I do?

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Updated on Jun 23, 2021  |  07:01 PM IST |  1.4M
Hello Therapist: I broke up with my boyfriend & after patch up, feel like breaking up again: What should I do?
Hello Therapist: I broke up with my boyfriend & after patch up, feel like breaking up again: What should I do?

Hello Therapist, 

I have a boyfriend of 2 years. We broke up and again patched up 2 times and after 2 months of patching up again, I am again feeling like breaking up. What should I do? Is it love that I am patching up again and again or it is nothing that I feel for breaking up again and again?

Dear Pinkvilla reader, 

This happens commonly actually ... frequent breakups and subsequent patch-ups. However, it is a sign of a turbulent relationship. It also implies that in the long run, it doesn’t seem likely to give comfort and security which should actually be the foundation of a good relationship. 

Take some time out from this relationship and don’t jump straight back in. Give it some time. See how you feel about your partner. Make a note of things you miss and things you don’t miss. Then make a reality check of what kind of relationship you really want. All the best!

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