7 KILLER ways to impress a girl on the first date that will sweep her off her feet

If people say first dates are not important, they are wrong. Or they are trying to console you after hearing your terrible first date story. First dates are the most important because they work as a base to judge everything about you - from your character and behaviour to chivalry and looks. That is precisely why it is important to make a good impression on the first date (if you want more dates after the first). You need to give it your best shot and try to impress the girl you have been pining over!

These 7 tips are sure to help you ace that first date and probably get some more lined up in your lap!

Pick her up
Whether it is from her house, college or office, offer to pick her up. She may decline but offering to lend a ride is just thoughtful and will make her feel like you want to spend more time with her. It also goes to show that you are considerate and chivalrous. 

Make eye contact
This shouldn't even be on the list because it is basic courtesy. But if you are on a date with somebody and you are always looking away, it will make you seem disinterested in her. And if you want the date to go well, you don't want her to feel disinterested. 

Plan an activity

A simple "do you want to hang out tonight" text is not enough. If she says yes, she is expecting you to have something in mind. Follow up her "yes" with "let's catch that movie" or "let's go ice skating" or "let's go to the zoo". If she does not want to participate in that activity she will suggest something else, but if you are keen on meeting her, have a plan in mind. 

Ask questions
Yes, you might have a long list of exes who might still be "in love" with you. Or you might have just cracked that amazing sales deal. Sure, mention it to keep her informed but there is no need to go on and tell her how you are the best. Boasting is very uncool. And you want to be cool. 

Say no to negativity
There is a very high chance that all your views and ideas might not match. Your religious and political views might be the total opposite as her's, but try to keep the negative comments to yourself. Sure you can disagree and have a friendly easy conversation, but there is no need to turn this date into a debate event.

Keep the phone aside

This again doesn't need to be on the list because again, it is basic courtesy. But when you are out with somebody, they deserve your undivided attention. She could have been doing so many other things, meeting so many other people as well, but she chose to spend her time with you instead. Don't make her feel like she's wasted her time. Those texts and football updates can wait.  

Be confident
Women don't like men who need validation at all times about every small thing. Yes, it is normal to have butterflies before the first date and get a little sweaty, but take some deep breaths and remember that she agreed to go out with you because she likes you already! She could've said no when you asked first, but she didn't, which means you have already partly won her over!

Don't forget to try and look your best, and compliment her on how great she looks when you see her!