6 signs that show you are being too possessive about your partner

Negative possessiveness can make your partner hate the relationship you two share. Everyone needs inner peace of mind. This behavior isn’t normal. It could be a psychological issue. People get possessive when they rely too much on their partner and expect them to make you feel loved and important all the time. When you lack self-love and self-confidence, insecurity and jealousy arise. While it is okay to have some amount of healthy possessiveness but too much of it can be dangerous for your relationship.

Negative Possessiveness

6 signs that you’re being too possessive:

Controlling nature

You control where, why and when your partner goes. Whenever your partner wants to see a friend or go out with his bunch of friends, you question him. You put in all efforts to cancel his plan and make him sit at home. This manipulative nature is a sign that you’re too possessive.

Stalking

You constantly find a chance to check your partner’s text messages and call logs. You stalk their friend list on social media and log into his accounts to check his conversations with other people.

Stalking social media

Trying to destroy friendships

A possessive partner tries to destroy their partner’s friendship with other people. They constantly criticize the character and bring up old issues. You may not let your partner spend time with colleagues, friends or family. Keeping a close check on their interactions with anyone is a sign that you’re being too possessive.

No personal boundaries

You do not give personal space to your partner. You always want him to give you love and importance. You make your partner the centre of your world and give him no space for family, friends and others.

Always wanting importance

Constant texting

A possessive partner will constantly message and call their boyfriend or girlfriend whenever he/she is out. You keep a check about his whereabouts all the time.

Jealousy

Jealousy is one of the most common sign of being possessive. Whenever your partner talks to someone of the opposite gender, you want to know why. If they get a phone call, you want to know why. You get jealous in the smallest things.